A Dad and Son’s High School Basketball Journey
Sunday, September 27th, 2009Coach Ken Stevenson of Seton Academy (IL) has coached his son Ken Stevenson, Jr. the past four years. Ken Jr. has just committed to a DI school and Ken Sr. continues to build a strong program in the State of Illinois. They have endured many growing pains in the program and many highs, including a state championship last season. But how has the dynamic of coaching your son and being coached by your dad brought these two closer together. Beantownhoops caught up with both of them to find out.
Interview with Ken Stevenson Jr.
Beantownhoops: Describe what it is like to play for your dad.
Ken Stevenson Jr.: “It is very challenging but it also a good experience because I get to know what the plays are ahead of time, I get to come home and know what I can do better or what I need to work on. He gets to work with me first hand. I know that he will be harder on me than anyone else. He is so passionate and wants to win all the time so it makes it great to play for him. He wants the best for me so he pushes me hard. My mother could never take sides so she just had to listen, but I believe she was on my side when he got on me. I am ready for college because you cannot get any harder than he is so I am well prepared.”
Beantownhoops: Congratulations on your commitment to college, how was this process enjoyable and how was it difficult?
Ken Stevenson Jr.: “The whole recruiting process was enjoyable because I got to visit a lot of schools and see the campus and get to know the coaches. The college I chose had been recruiting me since the end of my sophomore year and they stayed in with me. The fact that my parents, especially my dad, gets to see me play and the opportunity for me to play right away were the deciding factors. My future college coaches remind me so much of my dad so that helped as well. It is a very good school so that played a major role in me committing to them.”
“It was difficult because you can only decide on one school and it was confusing sometimes because coaches were telling me different things and taking the calls at weird hours of the day/night was stressful at times.”
Beantownhoops: What will you miss about being coached by your dad?
Ken Stevenson Jr.: “I will miss the basketball conversations that we have before and after games. Just being with my father on a regular basis was good and bad. The good part was that we spent a lot of time together and I got to really see how passionate he is when it comes to basketball. The bad part is I never get what the other players get. What I mean is they get told how good they did, I would get what I didn’t do or what I should have done, but in the end it made me a better player for it. He couldn’t show favoritism toward me so he was tough on me, but I truly understand. He got to see me play all the time that was the greatest thing about him coaching me. He prepared me well to be in the position to attend college both on the court and off the court. He did a lot for all of us at Seton Academy. He truly cares for his players and we enjoy playing for him because of that.”
Beantownhoops: What advice would you give a player who is being coached by his dad at the high school level?
Ken Stevenson Jr.: “Be ready to give a 110 percent on or off the court because you will be watched by everyone from the players, parents, teachers, other coaches. Know that it will be out of love when you get yelled at or asked to come out of the game. You have to be a leader on the court and stay after practice to do the extra stuff so you can show people why you are on the team and not because your father is the coach. Do not take anything personal. Just play the game the way it’s meant to be played and enjoy the time spent with your dad.”
Interview with Coach Stevenson
Beantownhoops: Describe the process of starting a whole new program like you did at Seton Academy.
Coach Stevenson: “It was a very difficult one but challenging. My coaches and I spent a lot of time trying to teach those young men how to compete. We had to get to the basics with a lot of the young men. I have a lot of passion for the game of basketball and the kids saw it. I demanded a lot out of them and I wanted to show people that if you play hard and compete that anything is possible. Once we show people that we can compete, I knew that people would start paying attention to our program. It wasn’t easy and it was a lot of handwork but nothing in life is easy. To be successful you have to have players willing to work and want to win. Those are the kind of players that I had at Seton Academy.
Beantownhoops: After winning a state championship, how do you look to build off your team’s success this season?
Coach Stevenson: “This will probably be the toughest season I will have ever endured because we are no longer a secret and the bull’s eye is on our backs. The good is that I have eight seniors and they are very experienced so that will help us. They have that taste in their mouth and that feeling that they had at the end of the year. We will constantly look at those state rings and remind ourselves what it took to get those rings, we will look at the tapes to show how dedicated we were last year.”
Beantownhoops: You’ve coached your son for four years, have you treated him differently on the court than other players?
Coach Stevenson: “I treated them all the same, but I must admit he got it harder than most. I wanted to win so the best players were going to play and I’m hard on all of them. What made it easy for me is the fact that he could play the game and his peers and teammates knew that because he developed his own reputation in the basketball world. I really didn’t think he was going to come to Seton because he hadn’t said much about it in eighth grade.”
Beantownhoops: How were you able to help your son in the recruiting process as a father and coach?
Coach Stevenson: “I wanted whatever was best for him. We took a lot of visits especially his sophomore and junior years. I wanted him to decide on the best situation for him. I treated him no different than I do my other players. I do not tell players where they should go and that went for him as well. I guide, answer questions and share knowledge. I told him that he has to go somewhere that he will be comfortable playing and attending school. Do not go to a situation where you may never play because then school will be no fun for you. ”
“Overall I do believe that he did a good job on deciding where he wanted to play basketball at. His mother wanted him to go to the school he chose the very first time he got offered. The coaches did a great job in the recruiting process and the fact that their program has turned around was a deciding factor. I do believe that they will do a good job with my son and taking him to that next level. It has been a great experience coaching my son and I will truly miss him, but he is on to bigger and better things. I will continue doing what I do but I will still get to see him play and talk to him about his game, that will never change. We have had a lot of success together at Seton and I am so proud of him words cannot describe it.”
Beantownhoops: What advice would you give to a coach who is coaching his son at the high school level?
Coach Stevenson: “It’s very tough coaching your son because you cannot be a fan because you’re coaching. Coach no different that you do if your son wasn’t on the team, that is the best advice I could give. If you love coaching and are all about the kids then you will be fine. If you are just about your kid then it will never work and there will not be any team success. Cherish those moments with your kid because four years go by awfully quick.”